today is a new day.. and today is the better day? this is wad my roommate always said to me.. but i dun seem to feel that today is a better day... yesterday was a better day instead...
Suddenly, i feel so insecured... Cheese cake gal was emotional disturbed... haha!! Sky Gal also emotional disturbed... i dunno... T.T making me also emotional disturbed..
wad is the problem now??! huh!!!
1.34pm (27.04.09):-
Rainy day outside... have me wondering will the sky become shiny again? when is the rain going to stop? is everyone happy with the rain or sad for it? hmmmm... did i do sumthing wrong? haiz.. but i'm just expressing wad i think... do u guys get the point??? let's make it easy to understand... wad's the definition of Blog?
Blog is a place where u can throw wadever feelings and thoughts by writing it out.. rather that throwing all the EMOTIONS, EXPRESSION, ANGER to other ppl... its our thoughts, we have our rights to say it out.. For me, i rather see ppl's blog than listening to wad other ppl talk bout me.. this is one kind of hurting but its a INDIRECT.. but.. direct hurting like SHOWING TEMPER~~~ that is not good.. GOD ASK US TO LOVE EVERYBODY...!! when a person write sumthing bout u, if u think u didn't do it.. then fine~ forget bout it.. if u did that, sure u have that feelings.. that is INDIRECTLY ADMIT that's ur fault... if u didn't do it.. why do u care so much?!
i dun have the strength to make everyone happy now.. i dun even care wad ppl feel.. i only care for those who care for me... there's lotz more i can do...
So, u guys get wad's the point of writing a blog? if u dun understand... DO NOT VIEW MY BLOG... its definately not for u.. and for those who can't take things easily... since u know u did wrong, CHANGE!!! if u refuse.. forget bout it!~ never think how u can hurt a person, but u always think ppl hurt u... have u thought of that? this is selfish...
anyhow, i won't be bothering bout this issue anymore.. cuz everyday is a new day.. haiz... to be continued after my chemistry period.. BYE!!
I agree that a blog is a utopia where you can express your feelings and thoughts about everything. But there are limitations to these kind of things. Even though you can express yourelf on your blog, that doesn't mean that you can misuse this new-found power.
ReplyDeleteLook, i know that you think this anonymous writer is bullshitting and whatever, but hear me out. You're not evaluating the whole situation properly.
First of all, we're all humans. We have expressions and we have different ways to express our feelings. Some of us may express our anger by staying silent for the whole day and others might pick a fight with the person who messed with them. For you, you express your feelings through your blog. Like you said "Blog is a place where u can throw wadever feelings and thoughts by writing it out..".
But even if this is true, you shouldn't spread unnecessary rumours about people. I don't give a damn about "Cheese Cake Gal" and "Sky Gal". Whoever they are, they can fight their own battles. My advise to you is that you should know two sides of the story. Don't just depend on one side of it.
You wrote "when a person write sumthing bout u, if u think u didn't do it.. then fine~ forget bout it.. if u did that, sure u have that feelings.. that is INDIRECTLY ADMIT that's ur fault... if u didn't do it.. why do u care so much?!"
Ok, you're being very judgemental without thinking properly. As i said, we're humans. Just because a person is angry at a statement doesn't mean that they're 'indrectly' admitting that it's their fault. It just means that they're upset with the statement. You may not get upset, but others do. So think about others, and don't be so quick to judge.
"its our thoughts, we have our rights to say it out.. For me, i rather see ppl's blog than listening to wad other ppl talk bout me.. this is one kind of hurting but its a INDIRECT"
I agree that we have our right to speak up but there are limitations. There are certain subjects that are sensitive, and you have to reconsider about your thoughts when you're writing about these subjects. Before you write a blog about any topic, you must know who is going to read it and what are their reactions. You should be a considerate writer and care for your readers. Indirect or direct hurting, both are still the same. Both evoke anger and this anger will end up in a life cycle. Do you get what i mean?
What i mean is, when you upset someone, that person will also upset you. And the cycle goes on where the person upsets you and you upset the person and so on. This cycle is endless and can only be stopped when the issue is discussed properly and both parties understand the situation.
"never think how u can hurt a person, but u always think ppl hurt u... have u thought of that? this is selfish...".
How about you? Have you given any thought about how this statement might affect another person. Aren't you 'indirectly' hurting another person at the same time? Wouldn't the person reading this feel that you're 'indirectly' hurting him/her and that he/she is the one being abused? Think sbout it.
My advise to you is to consider about what you're writing. Even though you have warned readers about your blog, you should still be a considerate writer. Assess the situation carefully and look at both side of the story. Like they say "Be like a hawk".
With that, i wish you all the best in life and hope that i have helped you in your judgement of human behaviour. I hope that you can see things in a new and brighter light.
From Life Is Bittersweet.
huh....pei yee...who is that who writes an long essay here.....for me erm...i think that everyone is using the blog for different purposes....that's why i don't dare to comment too much here. XD CHEER and carry on doing whatever you think it's right as there's no right or wrong in the society...just depends on how people view the things...
ReplyDeleteWell...If u're over sensitive on wad is written on my blog, dun see it~ i always look things at brighter side..
ReplyDeleteif u didn't do it, how could u feel it? and how can i make a person upset?! look at the point, WHY SHOULD U GET ANGRY? UPSET? OR EVEN SHOWING TEMPER TO OTHER PEOPLE? my point is WHY?! and my statement there is, u dun have to feel anything if that doesn't relate to u isn't?
since u can't take it.. forget bout it.. i have nothing to say.. u have ur own reasons to support what is sensitive shouldn't post it up, but for me.. expresing my thoughts and feelings in blog is the way how i want to be..
if i really hurt u.. i will apologize..sorry~ and i dun mean to hurt u.. remember.. for me, writing a blog is not meant to hurt someone! u think everybody like to hurt ppl?~ and i dun side any side..i think both sides did the wrong things.. its just misunderstanding.. anyway... Sorry..
if i want to care how ppl feel after reading my blog, then its not my blog anymore!!
i repeat.. if u can't take it.. dun read my blog..
if the person is considerate, the person won't hurt u back..
haizz.. pls la.. dun act like little girls ok?? its over.. let them pass... u guys still got 14 mths to go right.. dun ruin all ur relationships juz because that stupid useless thing....
ReplyDeletetommorow will be a batter day XD
Sandra !!! dont worry about someone who wrote u the long essay.. just ignore them thats all. they feel guilty about what they did thats why. just because they feel extremely guilty they are making u feel the same way too. i know exactly who the person is and i knw they feel really bad.. u know u didnt do anything wrong so just dont give a damn.. by the way people cant control what u want 2 write on your blog so just keep going.. write whatever u want because its your blog. they have NO RIGHT to say anything and i mean it.. If they have a problem with it then they should shut their bloody mouth and eyes and better not view your blog anymore.. U just continue girl.. I will reveal myself soon to u.. hahaha
ReplyDeletei am totally outta the situation....but CHILL guys and girls XD
ReplyDelete退一步海闊天空 開心點吧!
sandra... cheer up yeah ... :)
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